My name is Chris. Despite the name, I’m a girl, and I’m also legally blind, which makes the whole facebook/blog thing a little tricky. However, with the ever-advancing technology available to aid the visually impaired, I am venturing into the blogosphere. I haven’t found many blogs addressing the issue of low vision, so feel free to give me a shout if you find one or you have one.
That isn’t my whole life, though; in fact, it’s only a small part of it. I have a fulfilling job and a wonderful circle of friends and family, and most people don’t realize I can’t see well unless I tell them. I also get to bypass the whole appearance obsession, since I can’t actually see what anyone looks like, including myself. Don’t ask me how I managed to be a makeup artist while I was in school. All I can tell you is that overly-sensitive fingertips give me some mad blending skills.
To me, the world is fuzzy. I like it that way. I just assume everyone is gorgeous and the world looks amazing. I’m sad that I may go completely blind someday, but I know there are benefits to blindness as well as drawbacks, and I have hope that before the lights go all the way out, there will be some way to save my vision.
My daughter spent 12 years legally blind. On her 16th birthday they tried her on a different kind of contacts. (she is 17 now) She can see, however, her sight continues to fade. We are hoping it will level out before nothing helps her anymore. She too loved the fuzzy world. She never worried with her looks or others. She listened and pictured them to their voice. She never looked at people because she could not see them so they automatically assumed she was stuck up and wanted nothing to do with her. She was able to draw with a computer tablet which lead to a part time job with a website from down under.
I find your willingness to branch out into the blog world an awesome testament to your courage. I will keep you in my prayers along with my daughter.
So glad you found the site! Yeah, there are positives and negatives, and good days and bad days. I’ll be thinking about you and your daughter, as well. Good luck!
This is a great blog.. I have a friend Pranav who lives in India and who I met on a Traveleyes holiday – here’s a link https://www.traveleyes-international.com/ . He is blind and has a blog on here too.. http://techesoterica.wordpress.com/ he is VERY techy minded *smile* and uses some specialist equipment which he writes about on the blog. We met in Iceland and it was the best holiday I have ever experienced.. I’ll follow this blog with interest. You have a great way of writing.
Wow, thanks for the links! I checked out both sites and was very impressed, and glad to have the resources. Thanks, and thanks for the compliment.
Awesome blog, Chris! I love the title, and more people should see the world as you see it – as an amazing place for discovery. Happy blogging.
Here is a link to my little blog (and I do mean little!): http://mjmonaghan.wordpress.com
Very encouraging…I really like what you’re doing. Happy blogging and keep up the great posts
I’m glad to have stumbled across your blog. It takes a lot of strength to put yourself out there, and you write wonderfully. Writing is a great way to really connect with people you otherwise wouldn’t have (it’s pretty good for venting too
Hi, Chris! Glad I found your blog. Funny! We “see” people almost the same exact way–tall, thin and gorgeous. Easier that way! I’ll be “seeing” you regularly on your blog. You write so well!
Barbara
Many thanks! I look forward to seeing you around the blog. Be sure to stop and chat with Johnny Depp; he’s a frequent visitor. He says he looks like Brad Pitt. I’m not sure I believe him.
Forgot to ask you if you use a screen reader? Enough vision to not need one yet? From the beginning, I’ve used JAWS and have been thinking of investigating others. Enjoying your blog!
Yes, I use a screen reader. Don’t know what I’d do without it! Or them, I should say, as I’ve tried a number. It takes some getting used to, but definitely worth it. Thanks! I hope you continue to enjoy the blog.
LBG, I know you and your stance on awards. But on the mercy of the furby’s that will never die, accept this one.
http://onwindydays.wordpress.com/2012/02/20/the-liebster-blog-award/
I don’t know if someone else has already nominated you for it, but oh well! Take it, take it meow!
Well, if you’re going to drag the furby into it! Thanks, I’m very flattered! And congratulations to you!
Also, I would like to let you know that I have nominated you for the Blog of the Year Award! LBG, hope you’re doing well! And Happy New Years
http://onwindydays.wordpress.com/2013/01/02/blog-of-the-year-award/
For a writer to be speechless means a lot. I was very touched by your “about” description, and I love how you describe yourself and your world. You remind me a lot of Caroline Casey in her TED Talk called “Looking Past Limits.” It is a phenomenal speech! I have watched it multiple times, and it never gets old. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YyBk55G7Keo Her words are incredibly powerful.
Your words also remind me of a girl I met about a year ago named “Devina” (she renamed herself). She was the first legally blind person I ever met, and I didn’t even know it. We were at a dancing/painting class, and I had no idea until she told me. We had a wonderful evening, and I learned a lot from her courage and boldness: http://6monthstolive.wordpress.com/2010/03/14/day-123-sights-unseen/
I’m deeply flattered! Thanks so much. I have to say, living with myself every day as I do, I rarely find myself at all impressive, so it’s nice to hear good things from others. Yeah, us legally blind people work pretty hard to keep it from being obvious. Like I said, there are good things and bad things about it. I wouldn’t choose it, but since it happened to me, I might as well find the silver linings!
I think your outlook is deeply inspirational!
You. Are. Amazing. Such a positive and humorous attitude make for the brilliant writer you are.
Thanks so much! Of course, I don’t include my dark days, for the most part. That’s the nice part about having a blog. You never have to expose your bad hair days to the blogosphere!
I’m so happy I found this blog! You’re so awesome! Also, I LOVE makeup, it’s really cool that you were a makeup artist in school!
I really enjoyed it! Once you get past the part where you’re putting your hands all over the faces of total strangers, it’s really fun. Welcome to my blog, glad to have you!
beautiful blog! love this line: “I just assume everyone is gorgeous and the world looks amazing.”
I completely agree…. What a beautiful girl you are
Both from inside and outside.
Thanks so much to both of you! I shall assume that you are both as charming to look at as your comments are to read.
I like that you live in a fuzzy and optimistic world. I also like that I’m a supermodel in your world
But mostly, your writing is hilarious (in the one post I’ve read so far), and I look forward to reading more!
Glad you found me! There are definite benefits to being legally blind. Until further notice, I’ll assume you look like a Victoria’s Secret model!
I love your “half full” attitude towards life–aka “fuzzy” believing in the best in what you find in people. Very uplifting and refreshing. Thanks for checking out my site, and I look forward to following yours.
Happy Pages,
CricketMuse
Thanks! I figure, as long as I can’t see how things actually look, I’ll just paint as pretty a picture as I can and live in that. More fun that way!
You are inspiring. Thanks for spending time sharing your thoughts & world!
I’m glad you think so! And you’re welcome, but really, it’s a great pleasure and I’m grateful that people are interested enough to read and comment. Thanks!
Hey iliketheworldfuzzy, I’ve nominated you for the Creative Chaos Award! Very fun to read through.
http://knuggetsofknowledge.wordpress.com/2012/04/06/creative-chaos-award/
Thanks! And I checked out the award requirements; you’re giving me homework! I thought I would just get a nice, shiny statuette or something. Oh, well!
Great! Impressive! Wish you all the best!
Thanks so much! All the encouragement has been very heart-warming.
If you did all this then you can do muuuuch more, so good luck with everything!
Love your blog Chris! I’ve often thought about how screen-centric daily life has become, and wondered whether it would make it more difficult for a blind person to participate. So I’m really encouraged and inspired by what you’re doing with this blog! On top of which your writing is great, and I love your wry sense of humor. Great blog handle, too. Keep it up!
Definitely! Yeah, it’s getting easier as more and more aids for the visually impaired come out, and existing ones get improved. It’s nice not to have to feel cut off from that part of life anymore.
Very impressed.
Good luck with this blog!
Thanks very much! I’m really enjoying it so far.
Hi, I nominated you fro the Leibster blog award. Not so much homework with this one.
Thanks! I’m a big fan of awards that don’t require homework.
Well, wouldn’t you know it–the day I nominate you for the Beautiful Blogger Award you drop a post all about your upcoming pro status for swearing. We will overlook that tiny indiscretionand concentrate on how much more fun the world is with the addition of your pithy outlook and wry commentaries. Do try to tuck in your &*&%4^^ when you come up to the podium to accept your award–yes? No, Meryl Streep slip ups, okay?
Ha and Blue Skies,
CricketMuse
Can’t take me anywhere! Thanks for the nomination. Am I a beautiful blogger? You’re making me vain!
Better widen the doorways…
Just to let you know how much I appreciate your writing, I have nominated you for the Reader Appreciation Award! http://wp.me/p1ex8U-Wn. Hope you feel as special as you remind us to feel.
Thank you! I certainly hope you feel special. You should!
Awww.. thank you soo much!
Pink.
Hi ! I nominated you for the Liebster Blog Award. You can check it out here:
http://martinisandbonbons.com/2012/04/23/thank-you-for-the-liebster-blog-award-nomination/
Thanks! Wow, I’m always so flattered when someone thinks enough of my blog to nominate me for an award. It’s doubly flattering to have a nomination from a blog I like!
Hi Chris,
I am so happy to be following your blog, I find it wonderfully refreshing! Your words make me smile and I would love to nominate you for the Beautiful Blogger award! Shine on, and keep it up!
Amanda
http://byamandaleigh.com/2012/05/16/beautiful-dont-you-know/
Thanks so much! This whole blogging thing has been a real adventure. Glad you’re sharing it with me!
I know you’re now famous, LBG, having been Freshly Pressed, but I wanted to include you in my list of nominees for the Versatile Blogger Award. Love your Blog! http://largeself.com/2012/05/19/beautiful-and-versatile-blogger-awards/
Thank you so much! I’m so flattered by blog awards. I’m glad you’re enjoying my blog!
I’ve nominated you for the Beautiful Blogger Award, here: http://lexokat.wordpress.com/2012/05/27/beautiful-blogger-award/
Thanks! I’m really flattered. The best thing about these awards is, they always come from award winners!
Hi – Love your blog. I’m writing a feature and it would be great to speak with you…. but can’t find an email address. Can you email me at speddingemma@gmail.com ? Best Wishes, Emma
Hi Chris
I love your blog and I just wanted to let you know that I’ve nominated you for a blogger award! Check it out at http://www.dailychoicesaddup.wordpress.com There are some rules for receiving the award however, so I’m passing them along (not sure how well I adhered, but what can you do?!). (1) thank the blogger who nominated you (2) include the links to their blogs, (3) include the award image in your post, (4) copy the award image to your site, (5) give seven random facts about yourself, (6) nominate 15 other bloggers for the award, (7) when nominating other bloggers include the links to their sites, and (7) let those bloggers know they’ve been nominated.
ps. you don’t have to publicize this after moderating…I just couldn’t find an email for you!
Hope you have a great week!
Elaine
Thanks so much! I’m so flattered by nominations like this. And don’t worry about adhering to the rules–one good thing about a virtual award: they can’t take it back!
Hey — I’ve nominated you for the Sisterhood of the World Bloggers Award. http://wanderingvoiceless.com/2012/06/04/oh-my-gosh-you-like-me-ive-won-a-award/ Enjoy, or ignore. :>
Thank you so much! I love how global this whole blogging thing has become. Awesome!
Right?! You are very welcome. Have fun!
Hey!
I mentioned you here: http://lexokat.wordpress.com/2012/06/13/a-simple-quiz/
I hope you are ok with it and maybe you can reply to it!
Wow, you are an amazing girl Chris. I accidentally stumbled across your blog and I am so glad I did. I struggle with stupid stuff in this world and to be faced with what other people endure or rather how happy other people are with much greater obstacles than me, put stuff in my life into perspective and humbles me. Thank you for that. I will definitely visit your blog again!
Miss your entries, LBG! Happy Fourth of July!
I’ve nominated you for a Versatile Blogger Award
For more info, please visit:
versatilebloggeraward.wordpress.com/
Happy Blogging!
Hey LBG! Miss your posts, friend!
LGB where have you been?! I missed your hilariosity. Totally don’t think that that’s a word, but you know what I mean!
Anyways, I tagged you in a game of blog tag! TAG!
http://wp.me/p1WozO-8V
Wow. I began reading your blog. loved it by the end of the first post and then thought ‘wait. what? this girl’s not blind. maybe she’s speaking figuratively.’ You have a view on life that’s waay better than those of us who can see. and maybe it isnt just your cross that’s made it that way..I think you’re a naturally wonderful person and a laugh riot! You inspire me.
Merry Christmas, LBG!! God Bless you! Barbara